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December 2006



Welcome Back to the Tribe
Dee Beardsley, Certified PP, PLS, NALS Secretary/Treasurer

At the P/PE Workshop in Tulsa earlier this year I spoke about finding sources for President’s Messages.   Many of the issues our leaders seek guidance on (motivation, attrition, conflict resolution) are common to every organization and inspiration can be found everywhere, even in “junk” mail or in newsletters and publications that cross your desk.

In January 2006, George Wessberg wrote a wonderful piece in the Outrigger Canoe Club magazine which addressed many of these issues.  I share portions of his article with you because I believe there is a great deal of wisdom in this piece and some practical ideas which may be worth consideration as you plan your programs for the next term.   For clarity, I have substituted certain words (NALS for Outrigger Canoe Club, etc.), but left others as Mr. Wessberg intended:

Tribalism is a natural and simplistic social system that has evolved during the past two million years.  A tribe is usually a small group that is tightly bound together by their culture and desire for survival.  Most forms of government, from communism to democracy, find their roots in tribalism.

Anthropologists currently view tribalism as the natural state of humanity.   Tribes are generally an open, egalitarian, classless, and cooperative community.  It is the “egalitarian” component of this definition that causes tribes to be different and often causes larger tribes to fragment.

Egalitarian tribalism is based upon the moral doctrine that all members of the tribe are equal.  However, equality is a relative term depending upon the perspective from which it is viewed.  [NALS] is based upon democratic egalitarianism where every regular member has an equal voice in the governance of the organization.

Factionalism occurs when a group within a tribe organizes to pursue an agenda that does not support the voice of the majority.  When factionalism occurs within an open and honest forum, the dissent actually strengthens the tribe.  However, when factions develop within a tribe for the purpose of personal gain rather than promoting the welfare of the tribe, the insidious fragmentation saps the strength of the tribe.

I have spent the past three years interviewing some of the “good people” who no longer paddle for our Club.  Some gave up competitive paddling because of the time commitment.  Others remained in the club, but quit paddling because they felt there was no place for them in the paddling program.

Some left because of “conflicts” with other paddlers or coaches and they found a receptive home at another club.  Other youth and master members quit paddling with our Club because of limited opportunities to paddle.

However, the most disconcerting reason given for leaving was because paddling … just wasn’t as fun as it used to be.

Historically, dominant factions or cliques inevitably develop within every large tribe and these factions tend to adopt an exclusive or condescending attitude toward “others.”  Ultimately, things get said, feelings get hurt, and good people leave.

Our unique culture is the rope that binds our rigging together and permits our Club to perpetuate our proud tradition of excellence.  For this reason, the mandate of this Club is to provide members with equal opportunity to participate rather than equality of outcome.

A[n association] that pursues excellence must acknowledge that all members are not born with equal aptitude.  However it does provide opportunities for members to improve their individual performance, and personal enjoyment by improving their attitude and their ability.

 

[We have] been working on several initiatives to address the issues of participation and competitiveness.  Last year a task force developed a Roadmap to Excellence to make the Outrigger Canoe Club a “positive place to paddle” for our Junior members.  This comprehensive plan has been expanded to include members of all ages.  [See sidebar.]

Regardless of individual skill or experience, it is essential that members of our [association] adopt an attitude of “inclusion” toward all, so every member of our tribe who wishes to do so, can experience the joy of [NALS].

The tradition of excellence at [NALS] was created by the contributions of many members.  To perpetuate this legacy, our programs must have the support of all members.

I invite paddlers that have moved to another club, for whatever reason, to give us a second, or third, chance.  Please come back home for the [next term].  We have outstanding [leaders], excellent [programs], board support, a positive attitude and expanded opportunities.

I also invite all members to attend . . .  a homecoming party for active [members], a reunion of former [members] and a kick-off for the new season.  It is likely this event will include . . .  followed by a social event with entertainment in the evening and possibly a fundraising auction to support our programs.

 

Road to Excellence

  • Positive Coaching Workshops to improve recruitment and retention
  • Basic Skills Clinics
  • Master Skills Clinics
  • Leadership training
  • Social events for members who want to participate merely for fellowship
  • Fundraising events for all programs

So, during the next few months, when you see a “prodigal paddler” among us, rejoice, extend your aloha, and welcome them back to our tribe.

A holiday movie that I enjoy equally for its humor and pathos is “Home for the Holidays.”  No matter how quirky the individuals are, how outrageous their behavior, how tenuous their hopes and dreams, they are family and are all – in the end – embraced by the family. 

I hope that you will find ways to welcome back former members to your local tribe and to include all members in your activities in the coming year, regardless of their aptitude or ability.

Happy holidays!

 

 

 

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