Leadership Lessons from Trees
by Dee Beardsley, PP, PLS, NALS President
Remember the movie Nine to Five with Lily Tomlin, Jane Fonda, and
Dolly Parton? Lily’s mantra in that movie was “I am a
willow; I can bend.” Back when I was working for four
partners and a paralegal—and doing the billing for one of our international
offices--I used to have that motto as a screen saver on my computer!
The greater lesson in that simple statement is that we can take
a lesson from trees. Dr. John Maxwell illustrated the same
point a few years ago in an article called “Trees and Teamwork.” Following
an unusually brutal winter, he noticed, “that where tall, young
pine trees grew in large stands, even though the branches were bowed
with the heavy snow, the trunks and branches were able to lean against
one another, thus providing support. When the snow melted,
those trees that had support sprang back into their usual vertical
position. But where that same species of tree stood alone,
the snow's burden had a much different effect. Branches bent
until they snapped. Occasionally, the trunk even split in two. Otherwise
healthy, young trees lay broken on the snow.”
He went on to relate that out in California giant redwoods only
achieved their great size when they were surrounded by other redwoods
because in a forest their shallow roots become entangled and bound
together below ground and each tree is tethered by all its neighbors
so that together they can withstand hurricane force winds.
Dr. Maxwell’s point was that leaders who go it alone will fail
alone. Collaborative leadership takes more effort, but it yields
greater results and provides a greater probability of success. By
enlisting the input of the people on your team, you increase your
potential for success. He suggested:
Plan together. This allows you to share the victory with your
team, and allows your team to share with you in the face of defeat.
Prepare together. Getting input from your team members not
only improves your chances of winning, it also prepares others for
leadership roles. When leaders and potential leaders work together,
they learn from each other new ways of processing information and
planning strategically.
Celebrate together. Never pass up an excuse to throw a party. One
of the most common flaws I see in leaders across the country is when
they reach a significant milestone, they immediately set their sights
on another without stopping long enough to celebrate the victory
they've just won. Do it! Not for you, but for everyone
else who gave so much to make the win a reality. And if you
lose one once in a while, celebrate the fact that it could have been
worse!
Debrief together. After each win or loss, schedule a brief
meeting to find out from each participant what went well - and what
could have gone better. You'll see the situation from multiple
viewpoints, and you'll also see first-hand who on your team is growing
in their ability to handle success and defeat.
When you apply the lesson of the trees, you'll emerge from the storms
of leadership intact!