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BEING A LEADER

This is a message every leader should read, because your constituents/peers/members are watching you and doing as you do, not as you say . . .
 
When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you welcome a stranger to our meeting, and I learned that it was important to include everyone.
 
When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you invite everyone’s comments and suggestions, and I learned to appreciate and respect many different points of view.
 
When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you thank someone for a job well done, and I learned that little things can be the special things in life.
 
When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you publicly recognize my work on a committee, and I immediately wanted to do more.
 
When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you give of your time to mentor others, and I learned that it was good to help people learn and grow.
 
When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw how you handled your responsibilities, even when you didn’t feel good or when there were tough problems, and I learned to persevere.
 
When you thought I wasn’t looking, I watched how you live your life, and I learned through your example how to be a good and productive person.
 
When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw how much you cared, and I wanted to be everything that I could be.
 
When you thought I wasn’t looking, I looked at you and wanted to say “thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn’t looking.”
 
Adapted from an unattributed piece about parenting circulated via the Internet.
Submitted by Beth Cummings, PLS and Patricia E. Infanti, PP, PLS